Sunday, December 22, 2013

Feliz Navidad


Feliz Navidad

Nativity in La Vega

I love Christmas and all of the traditions, memories and activities that accompany this time of year.  
One of my favorite prophets is Howard W. Hunter.  The last address he gave was in December of 2002 entitled "The Gifts of Christmas."  I would like to share a portion of this talk with all of you as you contemplate what gifts you can give to those you love.


"The Savior dedicated His life to blessing other people.  As expressed by His chief Apostle, Peter.  “God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Ghost and with power:  who went about doing good” 
(Acts 10:38)

Never did the Savior give in expectation of receiving.  He gave freely and lovingly, and His gifts were of inestimable value.  He gave eyes to the blind, ears to the deaf, and legs to the lame; cleanliness to the unclean, wholeness to the infirm, and breath to the lifeless.  His gifts were opportunity to the downtrodden, freedom to the oppressed, forgiveness to the repentant, hope to the despairing, and light in the darkness.  He gave us His love, His service, and His life.  And most important, He gave us and all mortals resurrection, salvation, and eternal life.

Let us strive to give as He gave.  To give of oneself is a holy gift.  We give as a remembrance of all the Savior has given.  

This Christmas. . .
Mend a quarrel. Seek out a forgotten friend. Dismiss suspicion and replace it with trust. Write a letter. Give a soft answer. Encourage youth. Manifest loyalty in word and deed. Keep a promise.   Forgo a grudge.  Forgive an enemy. Apologize. Try to understand. Examine your demands on others. Think first of someone else. Be kind. Be gentle. Laugh a little more. Express gratitude. Welcome a stranger. Gladden the heart of a child. Take pleasure in the beauty and wonder of the earth. Speak your love and then speak it again."

I am motivated by the example of our Savior and encouraged to ponder the words of the prophet and determine what gift I can give my Savior.

Merry Christmas to all of our family, friends and loved ones.  



Lights on the Square in La Vega




Did That Really Just Happen?

"Be there at 7 p.m. for the Christmas dinner," we were told.  So being the prompt missionaries that we are, we arrived at 7 p.m. to find a handful of people at the church.  Decorations were being put up, some of the food was brought in.  By 8:30 p.m. the building was filled to capacity with anxious people waiting for their dinner.  However, Dominican tradition is that they have their entertainment and dancing first, then the dinner last.  If I had known that, I would have eaten some saltine crackers or something:-)

So the entertainment began. . .

The Nativity in the Dominican Republic



Why, that picture looks just like thousands of pictures of the reenactment of the Nativity.  The event was quite reverent and the actors and actresses played their part with respect until Santa walked in.  The guitar began strumming with the keyboard accompanying the nativity to the tune of "Feliz Navidad!"  The angel, wise men, Mary, Joseph and shepherds began rocking out.  What just happened?  Everyone enjoyed the entertainment.





As missionaries, we were invited to four different Christmas dinners at the branch meetinghouses in La Vega. We learned very quickly what the traditional Christmas dinner is.  Although the presentation of the food varied, the menu was pretty much the same.  

Roasted pig, chicken, potato salad, green salad (shredded lettuce, shredded cabbage, sliced tomatoes with oil and vinegar), rice with beans, and a pasta salad with tuna fish in it.  For dessert, they take an individual small styrofoam plate, pile it with an apple, grapes or raisins and two jelly candies, wrap it in plastic wrap and hand it out to each individual.  

Yes, that's a machete they use to carve the pig




                                                                                          A delicious dinner



In the Conani Branch, where we are assigned to attend on Sundays, I am the only one who "plays" the piano.  So of course, I was asked to accompany some groups while they sang their Christmas songs.  The Dominicans love, love, love to sing.  It is so refreshing to hear them sing their hearts out and they don't care if they are in tune.  Well, I'm not sure if they know if they are in tune or not.  

I had just finished accompanying a quartet who sang Angels We Have Heard on High.  The strains of gloria rang out and I was sitting at the keyboard in the front of the chapel, pondering the beauty of the season and the blessing of the birth of our Savior.  




The chairs and podium were moved aside and I sat directly in front of the brick with the keyboard in front of me.  Elder Fagersten was sitting close by.  Unbeknown to me, there was a 6 inch lizard crawling up the brick wall behind me.


The lizard looked around, and down below.  Oh, he thought, I see my target clearly below.  He took the plunge, will he reach his target?  Swoop, he landed on my head, then ran down my back!  I shuddered, let out a small squeek, pushed my chair back and looked for help to be saved from the man eating creature.


Did that really just happen?  Yes and I lost my appetite for the roasted pig. . .











Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Why Do Birds Fly South For the Winter?




WHY DO BIRDS FLY SOUTH FOR THE WINTER?
Because it's too far to walk. . .

When we arrived in La Vega, we had no idea how many birds from North America would decide to fly to the Dominican Republic.  We think that they have all decided to land right outside our bedroom window. What kind of birds are they?  I will have to pull out my bird book because I have never seen them before, nor can we identify any of their songs.

While driving around our neighborhood, we glanced into a yard.  I noticed chickens running around which is not unusual.  However, my eyes were drawn to two pinkish looking birds with long legs.  Yes, they were flamingos.  I guess they are their pets, because they were fenced in the yard.

Flamingo

Rooster Crossing



Healthy sized chicken will make a great dinner for someone tonight





Bird Hotel

Waiting to see if their rooms are ready

We serve birds in this restaurant

OK, I'll eat the leftovers

Thinking bird. . .should I eat some more, or take a nap?

Sunday, December 1, 2013

Medical Clinic



Elder Fagersten and I have had several occasions where we have had to take the missionaries to the clinic. It was different than the clinics or offices I have been to in the United States, but I thought it wasn't too bad. But that was my viewpoint from the waiting room. We sat on plastic chairs and there was a 20 inch TV which played a variety of shows from Dominican Soap Operas to showing the Disney movie "The Rescuers Down Under" (all in Spanish, of course).

This time it was different.  This time I was the patient.  I had been down for several days with a slight fever,  a massive headache, aches, etc., and I thought I had the flu.  No problem, I could wait it out.  However, when the word got out that I was ill, everyone wanted me to go to the clinic.  Not on your life, I thought. Then Hermana Douglas, our Mission President's wife called me.

"Hermana Fagersten, I heard you were sick."  How did she know?  Word spreads fast in the mission. . .
"Oh, I'm getting better.  I'm pretty sure it is just the flu."  Panic was setting in.  She wouldn't make me go to the clinic!

In her calm, reassuring voice she said, "You probably wouldn't know that here in the Dominican Republic there are many diseases that mimic the flu."  Oh, great, I thought.  "There is a disease called leptospirocis that mimics the flu.  It is very treatable, but left untreated, then it will cause serious damage to your kidneys or liver and you can die.  I would suggest you go into the clinic to get your blood tested."  O.K. so your scare tactics worked.  I will go on Monday and get my blood drawn.  "No, Monday is too late.  You need to go tomorrow."  Thanks Hermana Douglas, I will go tomorrow.

Wanting to be very clear to the doctor about what was going on, and not wanting to have anything done to me that didn't need to be done, Gary and I sat down and wrote down everything that I felt needed to be communicated clearly in Spanish so he could explain it to the doctor.  He decided we should take a native speaker with us, so we called our good friend President Diaz who, thankfully, went with us to the clinic.

Now when we walked into the clinic, no one asked us to fill out any forms and no one asked us for any information.  We went straight back through those once unfamiliar doors.  Immediately we were greeted by the sounds of men working in the adjacent room, fixing the air conditioning unit.  There are no doors on any of the rooms, so whatever dirt may be flying around was shared by all.  The smell of a generator added to the nausea I was already feeling.  My confidence was waning.

The three of us entered a room that had two bed-like tables on either side of the room. Curtains hung from the ceiling on either side to ensure privacy.  If we were in the United States, this room would be for one person only.  Gary and President Diaz sat on the bed, there were no chairs in the room.

The nurse came in and told me to get on the table.  (My interpreters let me know what to do.)  Just a minute, there was only plastic covering this bed-like table.  Where was the paper that covers the table so you know it is clean.  As a matter of fact, not too much looked very clean.  "Do you have any identification with you?" Of course. I gave her my Iowa Driver's license.  A doctor came in and the two of them went to work.  Out came the blood pressure cuff which the doctor put on my arm,  and the nurse was going to take my temperature.  She pulled out a mercury thermometer and proceeded to put it under my armpit.  She started the timing.  The last time I saw a temperature taken like that was when I brought my children into the doctor when they were new babies.  But I was grateful she didn't want to put it in my mouth. . .no telling where that thermometer has been.

Lie down on the table.  Then the doctor pressed on my stomach. "Does this hurt?  Does this hurt?  Does this hurt?"  I thought I already told him that my stomach really hurt.  Maybe if I yelled every time he kneaded my stomach, then he would get the message. "Oh, he said, I think you may have a bacterial infection in your stomach."  Of course I don't understand what is going on and Gary is trying to interpret in between his conversations with President Diaz.  "Are you allergic to anything?"  Yes, these are the two medications I am allergic to.  "O.K."

Remember, that no medical history was done on me.  No questions about any medications I might be taking or anything about my personal self.

Out goes the doctor.  What is going on, I ask my trusty interpreters?  "I think they are going to draw blood." I'm O.K. with that, I thought, since that was what I had come in here to do in the first place.  So the nurse came back with a needle.

An interesting method they use here in this clinic is the nurse comes in carrying her little fishing tackle box that is filled with empty and full blood vials.  She takes OFF her rubber gloves, lays them on the table, then begins her procedure with bare hands.  She ties my arm with the elastic band tourniquet, cleans my arm with ample rubbing alcohol, finds a vein and inserts the needle.  Not bad,it didn't even hurt.  She must have done that a million times. She was a pro.  However, I looked down to see why it was taking so long for the little vial to fill up with blood only to see that she was not drawing blood, but putting something into my body! No one asked me if I wanted to be injected with something.  I turned to my interpreters.  What are they putting in me?  "Oh, don't worry," President Diaz said, "the first vial of medication is to protect you from the second vial of medication they will be putting in you. This will help the bacteria in your stomach."  So glad you told me, that really put me at ease.  Wait, I thought the blood tests were to determine what was wrong with me and I hadn't even had any blood drawn.

No sooner had I thought that, then the second nurse came in to take my blood.  The same procedure was repeated.  Off came the rubber gloves, and she cleaned my skin with about a half cup of alcohol that was dripping down my arm and literally soaked the sleeve of my blouse.  However, she did take my blood with as much ease as the first nurse, which was a great relief to me.  After the blood was drawn, she saturated several more minuscule cotton balls (which were sitting in an open clump on top of her tackle box) with her bare hands and put it on my puncture wound and walked out. I wanted to cry out, wait a minute, don't I get to choose which Disney Princess band aid I get?  No, there was not a band aid to be found.  As a matter of fact, there was not a sink to be found either.  I wonder where they wash their hands in between drawing blood from patient to patient.  (To be fair, there were no sinks that I saw. . .)

So I thought, well what else could they do to me?  "Does this hurt?"  The first nurse said as she pushed the plunger forcing more fluid up my arm.  I had nine children I told her, I can handle this.  "You win," she said. The first vial went in like a dream.  Then came vial number two.  "Does this hurt?"  O.K., maybe I'm not so tough after all.  It felt like she inserted a pipe in my arm instead of a needle.  Every time she came back to inject more fluid, it was worse.  So of course, Elder Fagersten and I started joking about all of our hospital experiences and we got the giggles.  I gave the nurse the evil eye every time she injected more into me until we got her laughing and President Diaz laughing.  Hey, you've got to have fun somehow.

We looked up and another person was walking into our room with another nurse.  You'll have to move she said to Elder Fagersten and President Diaz who picked up themselves, their keys, wallets, books and papers that they had on the bed and vacated it for this lady.  I didn't see anyone wipe down the bed, or put any protective covering on it.  She proceeded to lie on the bed.  Hmmmm.  I wonder who was on my bed before I laid on it.  Just say'in.

My medications were finished, the needle removed, and we thanked the staff.  Then came those terrifying words. . .come back tomorrow.  No way, I thought.  "We need to make sure your platelets go up."  I was pretty certain that I would be O.K.

Elder Fagersten and President Diaz went to fill my antibiotic prescription and then pay my clinic bill for blood tests, and whatever medicine they injected in me.  I had been under their care for about an hour.  I wondered how we would handle insurance for this and tomorrow's clinical tests.  Elder Fagersten paid the bill, we hopped in the truck.   Not wanting to hear the answer, I still asked the question. O.K., how much did it cost for an emergency room visit, doctors check up, two drugs injected, blood analysis and a prescription filled? Well, Elder Fagersten paused,  he said, "menos que 1000 pesos, or $20".  What?!  I would have paid an extra dollar if they would have given me a Disney Princess band aid!  I guess we don't have to worry about submitting an insurance claim. What I want to know is who pays the doctors and nurses?  That $20 could have only covered the cost of the supplies and tests.

The clinic

Back to the clinic the next day.  It was 9 a.m. we tried to open the door, but it was locked.  So we knocked and an employee opened the door for us.  We went in and a nurse brought us back to the last room (the one that was being repaired because all of the beds were filled in the adjoining rooms).  We walked past all of the people and smiled at them, wanting to give them a little encouragement.

"Sit down," the nurse ordered.  I looked at the bed, at the room and thought, really, you want me to sit here? The ceiling had about four open tiles where the men  had been working to repair the air conditioning.  There were tools in the corner, dirt all around, the bed had a huge rip in the plastic cover.  Let's see, should I sit on the big hole, or next to it?  I chose to sit next to it.  The procedure repeated itself.  The nurse took off her gloves.  This time I was sitting up.  I held my arm out in front of me as she tied the rubber band tourniquet around my arm.  She grabbed several mini cotton balls from her pile of open cotton balls with her bare hands.  She drenched them with the rubbing alcohol and wiped the arm.  With my arm suspended in the air, she inserted that needle without  any problem and the blood was drawn in a matter of seconds.  As we walked out of the room, the nurse turned to Elder Fagersten and told him he owed her 300 pesos ($6.75) for the blood analysis. Yesterday it was only 200 pesos ( $4.50) for the analysis.  It must be more expensive on Sunday. He paid her in the hall. No receipts, no questions, no forms to fill out.  About 20 minutes later the nurse handed us the results in an envelope.  The doctor looked them over and compared them with yesterday's results and talked to us in the waiting room and told us that things were looking better.  He asked again if I had any symptoms that needed treatment as he would write a prescription for any medication that I might need.  We told the doctor we're fine, thanks.  "Did you pay the nurse?" he asked.  Yes, we did.  "Then you can go." Gracias!  This was an experience I will never forget. . .well I don't think I will :-)

Saturday, November 30, 2013

Thanksgiving continued...

Katherine is doing a great job sharing some of the many thoughts, feelings and experiences of our mission.  I concur with all of them.  You know, it's one of those things that, at least in our case, she does really well, she enjoys it and takes the time and effort to get it done.  To have this history of script and picture will be a treasure for us to reflect on for some time.

Just a couple of thoughts from the old man.  Katherine, your Mom, Grandma, mother in-law, daughter, sister, sister in-law, aunt, niece, friend or what ever association you might have with her is a blessing in the lives of many people. That blessing of people's lives continues to expand as we serve here in the Dominican Republic.  In the same way that she has brought peace, love and in some cases the Gospel of Jesus Christ into your lives so she is able to do with the people that we meet here daily.

Of course being able to spend the most amount of time with her, I am the greatest recipient of her goodness. She is a patient and loving person who encourages and supports me in the many responsibilities that we have here.

Hopefully some of these photos reflect some of the ways and people that she has been a blessing to:


This is her "Top 10" list
(I didn't have a photo of the "Top 6" in-laws)
(They get added to the "Top 10" list)



This is next , her "Top 20" list




Aunt Elizabeth and Luella Mathusek



The John Jackson family.  Here representing one of the many
nieces and nephews that she tries to stay in contact with. 



The Geovonny Diaz family.  One of our 
good friends here in the D.R.



Continuing a tradition of service and love 
through sharing and teaching music.



Another tradition, late night shopping at "Wal-mart", I mean 
"La Sirena".  You meet all kinds of people here.  This returned 
missionary and his son wanted to return some of the kindness done 
to him when he served as a misisonary in the D.R. so he bought our groceries.



Katherine never has been one to just invite 
one set of missionaries for lunch.



Yup, her favorite thing to do, pose for 
one more photo opportunity

Did you know that she has always wanted 
to be an English teacher? (Only kidding)
Well now she is one.  One of three of us.



If you did not notice last time we are sharing her Milkshake.
Mine is the half finished chocolate one in front of me.
Always sacrificing.




and always living worthy of the covenants 
the she has made.



Friday, November 29, 2013

You Can Never Get Enough Of What You Don't Need

HAPPY THANKSGIVING 

Someone once said, "Katherine, you can never get enough of what you don't need."  I have thought about that over and over again throughout my life.  It is true!  We have an insatiable appetite for things; clothes, electronics, adventures, getting ahead in life.  Not that any of that is bad.  Reaching helps us to move forward in life.  It helps us to improve.

However, my thoughts have been about giving thanks for the abundance that we do have in our lives.  I have especially been made aware of the abundance we have while we have been here in the Dominican Republic. But what is amazing to me, is the gratitude these people have for the things that are most important to them; their families and their God.  


Here are some of the things we are grateful for. . .our nine children.  You may wonder why we had nine children.  We had nine because there are nine letters in Fagersten.  That way each child could hold a letter and there would be no arguments.
Now, if I can only get them to learn how to spell. . .

Now that's better


Grateful for family reunions and for my Mom who started all of this:-)


Grateful for our beautiful 20 grandchildren




Grateful we can still have fun!



Grateful that Taylor Kilgore Fagersten joined our family!


Grateful we want to get together as often as possible



Grateful for family love




Grateful for all of our wonderful sons-in-law
Norm, Lars, Shawn, Brett and Matt!



Grateful for the Nauvoo Temple


Grateful for our La Vega Missionaries


Grateful for the opportunity to serve a mission and
for all we are learning.  Grateful for the strengthening of our love
for one another, the people in the Dominican Republic and for
the opportunity to witness how the Lord is mindful of all of His
children and how His hand is in all of our lives.

We are grateful for all of our family and friends throughout the world with whom we have built many years of love and friendship.  Thank you for all of your prayers, kindness, help and support to our family over the years.  We now have the opportunity to pay back a little of the many acts of service that were given to our family over the years.  We are grateful for the Savior whose life was an example of love and service to all.

"And behold I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye may learn that when ye are in the
service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God."  Mosiah 2:17











Sunday, November 17, 2013

15 Reasons Why I Love My Companion

My husband is definitely my most favorite companion I've ever had.  All right, I've never had another companion and this is my first mission, but he is tops on my list!  Serving a mission together has been one of the most rewarding experiences in our marriage (next to having children, grandchildren, and sons-in-law and a daughter-in-law).

Here are 15 of the hundreds of reasons I love my companion!
He is always himself

He hangs out with the missionaries

He drives in the D.R. with lots of people in his truck

He is silly with me

He takes the missionaries to the doctor and waits for 3 hours with them

He took me to the monument of Heros in Santiago with our friends

He told me what he wanted for Christmas (but Santa said it was too expensive:-)  

He crossed the bridge at the Salto de Jimanoa in Jarabacoa with me

He shares his milkshake with me

He brought me to the Mar de Caribe (Caribbean Sea) with our
dear friend Arletty and her husband Geovanny Diaz

He teaches with the missionaries 

He knows many important people (like John McCain)

He protects me

He brings me flowers



He takes me to the temple