Sunday, December 22, 2013

Feliz Navidad


Feliz Navidad

Nativity in La Vega

I love Christmas and all of the traditions, memories and activities that accompany this time of year.  
One of my favorite prophets is Howard W. Hunter.  The last address he gave was in December of 2002 entitled "The Gifts of Christmas."  I would like to share a portion of this talk with all of you as you contemplate what gifts you can give to those you love.


"The Savior dedicated His life to blessing other people.  As expressed by His chief Apostle, Peter.  “God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Ghost and with power:  who went about doing good” 
(Acts 10:38)

Never did the Savior give in expectation of receiving.  He gave freely and lovingly, and His gifts were of inestimable value.  He gave eyes to the blind, ears to the deaf, and legs to the lame; cleanliness to the unclean, wholeness to the infirm, and breath to the lifeless.  His gifts were opportunity to the downtrodden, freedom to the oppressed, forgiveness to the repentant, hope to the despairing, and light in the darkness.  He gave us His love, His service, and His life.  And most important, He gave us and all mortals resurrection, salvation, and eternal life.

Let us strive to give as He gave.  To give of oneself is a holy gift.  We give as a remembrance of all the Savior has given.  

This Christmas. . .
Mend a quarrel. Seek out a forgotten friend. Dismiss suspicion and replace it with trust. Write a letter. Give a soft answer. Encourage youth. Manifest loyalty in word and deed. Keep a promise.   Forgo a grudge.  Forgive an enemy. Apologize. Try to understand. Examine your demands on others. Think first of someone else. Be kind. Be gentle. Laugh a little more. Express gratitude. Welcome a stranger. Gladden the heart of a child. Take pleasure in the beauty and wonder of the earth. Speak your love and then speak it again."

I am motivated by the example of our Savior and encouraged to ponder the words of the prophet and determine what gift I can give my Savior.

Merry Christmas to all of our family, friends and loved ones.  



Lights on the Square in La Vega




Did That Really Just Happen?

"Be there at 7 p.m. for the Christmas dinner," we were told.  So being the prompt missionaries that we are, we arrived at 7 p.m. to find a handful of people at the church.  Decorations were being put up, some of the food was brought in.  By 8:30 p.m. the building was filled to capacity with anxious people waiting for their dinner.  However, Dominican tradition is that they have their entertainment and dancing first, then the dinner last.  If I had known that, I would have eaten some saltine crackers or something:-)

So the entertainment began. . .

The Nativity in the Dominican Republic



Why, that picture looks just like thousands of pictures of the reenactment of the Nativity.  The event was quite reverent and the actors and actresses played their part with respect until Santa walked in.  The guitar began strumming with the keyboard accompanying the nativity to the tune of "Feliz Navidad!"  The angel, wise men, Mary, Joseph and shepherds began rocking out.  What just happened?  Everyone enjoyed the entertainment.





As missionaries, we were invited to four different Christmas dinners at the branch meetinghouses in La Vega. We learned very quickly what the traditional Christmas dinner is.  Although the presentation of the food varied, the menu was pretty much the same.  

Roasted pig, chicken, potato salad, green salad (shredded lettuce, shredded cabbage, sliced tomatoes with oil and vinegar), rice with beans, and a pasta salad with tuna fish in it.  For dessert, they take an individual small styrofoam plate, pile it with an apple, grapes or raisins and two jelly candies, wrap it in plastic wrap and hand it out to each individual.  

Yes, that's a machete they use to carve the pig




                                                                                          A delicious dinner



In the Conani Branch, where we are assigned to attend on Sundays, I am the only one who "plays" the piano.  So of course, I was asked to accompany some groups while they sang their Christmas songs.  The Dominicans love, love, love to sing.  It is so refreshing to hear them sing their hearts out and they don't care if they are in tune.  Well, I'm not sure if they know if they are in tune or not.  

I had just finished accompanying a quartet who sang Angels We Have Heard on High.  The strains of gloria rang out and I was sitting at the keyboard in the front of the chapel, pondering the beauty of the season and the blessing of the birth of our Savior.  




The chairs and podium were moved aside and I sat directly in front of the brick with the keyboard in front of me.  Elder Fagersten was sitting close by.  Unbeknown to me, there was a 6 inch lizard crawling up the brick wall behind me.


The lizard looked around, and down below.  Oh, he thought, I see my target clearly below.  He took the plunge, will he reach his target?  Swoop, he landed on my head, then ran down my back!  I shuddered, let out a small squeek, pushed my chair back and looked for help to be saved from the man eating creature.


Did that really just happen?  Yes and I lost my appetite for the roasted pig. . .











Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Why Do Birds Fly South For the Winter?




WHY DO BIRDS FLY SOUTH FOR THE WINTER?
Because it's too far to walk. . .

When we arrived in La Vega, we had no idea how many birds from North America would decide to fly to the Dominican Republic.  We think that they have all decided to land right outside our bedroom window. What kind of birds are they?  I will have to pull out my bird book because I have never seen them before, nor can we identify any of their songs.

While driving around our neighborhood, we glanced into a yard.  I noticed chickens running around which is not unusual.  However, my eyes were drawn to two pinkish looking birds with long legs.  Yes, they were flamingos.  I guess they are their pets, because they were fenced in the yard.

Flamingo

Rooster Crossing



Healthy sized chicken will make a great dinner for someone tonight





Bird Hotel

Waiting to see if their rooms are ready

We serve birds in this restaurant

OK, I'll eat the leftovers

Thinking bird. . .should I eat some more, or take a nap?

Sunday, December 1, 2013

Medical Clinic



Elder Fagersten and I have had several occasions where we have had to take the missionaries to the clinic. It was different than the clinics or offices I have been to in the United States, but I thought it wasn't too bad. But that was my viewpoint from the waiting room. We sat on plastic chairs and there was a 20 inch TV which played a variety of shows from Dominican Soap Operas to showing the Disney movie "The Rescuers Down Under" (all in Spanish, of course).

This time it was different.  This time I was the patient.  I had been down for several days with a slight fever,  a massive headache, aches, etc., and I thought I had the flu.  No problem, I could wait it out.  However, when the word got out that I was ill, everyone wanted me to go to the clinic.  Not on your life, I thought. Then Hermana Douglas, our Mission President's wife called me.

"Hermana Fagersten, I heard you were sick."  How did she know?  Word spreads fast in the mission. . .
"Oh, I'm getting better.  I'm pretty sure it is just the flu."  Panic was setting in.  She wouldn't make me go to the clinic!

In her calm, reassuring voice she said, "You probably wouldn't know that here in the Dominican Republic there are many diseases that mimic the flu."  Oh, great, I thought.  "There is a disease called leptospirocis that mimics the flu.  It is very treatable, but left untreated, then it will cause serious damage to your kidneys or liver and you can die.  I would suggest you go into the clinic to get your blood tested."  O.K. so your scare tactics worked.  I will go on Monday and get my blood drawn.  "No, Monday is too late.  You need to go tomorrow."  Thanks Hermana Douglas, I will go tomorrow.

Wanting to be very clear to the doctor about what was going on, and not wanting to have anything done to me that didn't need to be done, Gary and I sat down and wrote down everything that I felt needed to be communicated clearly in Spanish so he could explain it to the doctor.  He decided we should take a native speaker with us, so we called our good friend President Diaz who, thankfully, went with us to the clinic.

Now when we walked into the clinic, no one asked us to fill out any forms and no one asked us for any information.  We went straight back through those once unfamiliar doors.  Immediately we were greeted by the sounds of men working in the adjacent room, fixing the air conditioning unit.  There are no doors on any of the rooms, so whatever dirt may be flying around was shared by all.  The smell of a generator added to the nausea I was already feeling.  My confidence was waning.

The three of us entered a room that had two bed-like tables on either side of the room. Curtains hung from the ceiling on either side to ensure privacy.  If we were in the United States, this room would be for one person only.  Gary and President Diaz sat on the bed, there were no chairs in the room.

The nurse came in and told me to get on the table.  (My interpreters let me know what to do.)  Just a minute, there was only plastic covering this bed-like table.  Where was the paper that covers the table so you know it is clean.  As a matter of fact, not too much looked very clean.  "Do you have any identification with you?" Of course. I gave her my Iowa Driver's license.  A doctor came in and the two of them went to work.  Out came the blood pressure cuff which the doctor put on my arm,  and the nurse was going to take my temperature.  She pulled out a mercury thermometer and proceeded to put it under my armpit.  She started the timing.  The last time I saw a temperature taken like that was when I brought my children into the doctor when they were new babies.  But I was grateful she didn't want to put it in my mouth. . .no telling where that thermometer has been.

Lie down on the table.  Then the doctor pressed on my stomach. "Does this hurt?  Does this hurt?  Does this hurt?"  I thought I already told him that my stomach really hurt.  Maybe if I yelled every time he kneaded my stomach, then he would get the message. "Oh, he said, I think you may have a bacterial infection in your stomach."  Of course I don't understand what is going on and Gary is trying to interpret in between his conversations with President Diaz.  "Are you allergic to anything?"  Yes, these are the two medications I am allergic to.  "O.K."

Remember, that no medical history was done on me.  No questions about any medications I might be taking or anything about my personal self.

Out goes the doctor.  What is going on, I ask my trusty interpreters?  "I think they are going to draw blood." I'm O.K. with that, I thought, since that was what I had come in here to do in the first place.  So the nurse came back with a needle.

An interesting method they use here in this clinic is the nurse comes in carrying her little fishing tackle box that is filled with empty and full blood vials.  She takes OFF her rubber gloves, lays them on the table, then begins her procedure with bare hands.  She ties my arm with the elastic band tourniquet, cleans my arm with ample rubbing alcohol, finds a vein and inserts the needle.  Not bad,it didn't even hurt.  She must have done that a million times. She was a pro.  However, I looked down to see why it was taking so long for the little vial to fill up with blood only to see that she was not drawing blood, but putting something into my body! No one asked me if I wanted to be injected with something.  I turned to my interpreters.  What are they putting in me?  "Oh, don't worry," President Diaz said, "the first vial of medication is to protect you from the second vial of medication they will be putting in you. This will help the bacteria in your stomach."  So glad you told me, that really put me at ease.  Wait, I thought the blood tests were to determine what was wrong with me and I hadn't even had any blood drawn.

No sooner had I thought that, then the second nurse came in to take my blood.  The same procedure was repeated.  Off came the rubber gloves, and she cleaned my skin with about a half cup of alcohol that was dripping down my arm and literally soaked the sleeve of my blouse.  However, she did take my blood with as much ease as the first nurse, which was a great relief to me.  After the blood was drawn, she saturated several more minuscule cotton balls (which were sitting in an open clump on top of her tackle box) with her bare hands and put it on my puncture wound and walked out. I wanted to cry out, wait a minute, don't I get to choose which Disney Princess band aid I get?  No, there was not a band aid to be found.  As a matter of fact, there was not a sink to be found either.  I wonder where they wash their hands in between drawing blood from patient to patient.  (To be fair, there were no sinks that I saw. . .)

So I thought, well what else could they do to me?  "Does this hurt?"  The first nurse said as she pushed the plunger forcing more fluid up my arm.  I had nine children I told her, I can handle this.  "You win," she said. The first vial went in like a dream.  Then came vial number two.  "Does this hurt?"  O.K., maybe I'm not so tough after all.  It felt like she inserted a pipe in my arm instead of a needle.  Every time she came back to inject more fluid, it was worse.  So of course, Elder Fagersten and I started joking about all of our hospital experiences and we got the giggles.  I gave the nurse the evil eye every time she injected more into me until we got her laughing and President Diaz laughing.  Hey, you've got to have fun somehow.

We looked up and another person was walking into our room with another nurse.  You'll have to move she said to Elder Fagersten and President Diaz who picked up themselves, their keys, wallets, books and papers that they had on the bed and vacated it for this lady.  I didn't see anyone wipe down the bed, or put any protective covering on it.  She proceeded to lie on the bed.  Hmmmm.  I wonder who was on my bed before I laid on it.  Just say'in.

My medications were finished, the needle removed, and we thanked the staff.  Then came those terrifying words. . .come back tomorrow.  No way, I thought.  "We need to make sure your platelets go up."  I was pretty certain that I would be O.K.

Elder Fagersten and President Diaz went to fill my antibiotic prescription and then pay my clinic bill for blood tests, and whatever medicine they injected in me.  I had been under their care for about an hour.  I wondered how we would handle insurance for this and tomorrow's clinical tests.  Elder Fagersten paid the bill, we hopped in the truck.   Not wanting to hear the answer, I still asked the question. O.K., how much did it cost for an emergency room visit, doctors check up, two drugs injected, blood analysis and a prescription filled? Well, Elder Fagersten paused,  he said, "menos que 1000 pesos, or $20".  What?!  I would have paid an extra dollar if they would have given me a Disney Princess band aid!  I guess we don't have to worry about submitting an insurance claim. What I want to know is who pays the doctors and nurses?  That $20 could have only covered the cost of the supplies and tests.

The clinic

Back to the clinic the next day.  It was 9 a.m. we tried to open the door, but it was locked.  So we knocked and an employee opened the door for us.  We went in and a nurse brought us back to the last room (the one that was being repaired because all of the beds were filled in the adjoining rooms).  We walked past all of the people and smiled at them, wanting to give them a little encouragement.

"Sit down," the nurse ordered.  I looked at the bed, at the room and thought, really, you want me to sit here? The ceiling had about four open tiles where the men  had been working to repair the air conditioning.  There were tools in the corner, dirt all around, the bed had a huge rip in the plastic cover.  Let's see, should I sit on the big hole, or next to it?  I chose to sit next to it.  The procedure repeated itself.  The nurse took off her gloves.  This time I was sitting up.  I held my arm out in front of me as she tied the rubber band tourniquet around my arm.  She grabbed several mini cotton balls from her pile of open cotton balls with her bare hands.  She drenched them with the rubbing alcohol and wiped the arm.  With my arm suspended in the air, she inserted that needle without  any problem and the blood was drawn in a matter of seconds.  As we walked out of the room, the nurse turned to Elder Fagersten and told him he owed her 300 pesos ($6.75) for the blood analysis. Yesterday it was only 200 pesos ( $4.50) for the analysis.  It must be more expensive on Sunday. He paid her in the hall. No receipts, no questions, no forms to fill out.  About 20 minutes later the nurse handed us the results in an envelope.  The doctor looked them over and compared them with yesterday's results and talked to us in the waiting room and told us that things were looking better.  He asked again if I had any symptoms that needed treatment as he would write a prescription for any medication that I might need.  We told the doctor we're fine, thanks.  "Did you pay the nurse?" he asked.  Yes, we did.  "Then you can go." Gracias!  This was an experience I will never forget. . .well I don't think I will :-)